Meet Paige, a hard-working mama with big dreams for her family, herself, and her business! As a mommy to her beautiful baby boy and owner of Gilded Lily Events, Paige knows exactly what it’s like to have a lot on her plate. In fact, that plate is overflowing with countless responsibilities; neverending errands and emails, sleepless nights and work-filled days, baby cuddles and client meetings, food prepping alongside laundry folding, and the list continues on and on. How does she do it all, and with such a positive attitude and inspiring approach? This mompreneur is sharing a few tips that we can all learn from!


I am pretty sure that the elusive work-life balance does not actually exist. Yet we are all still constantly striving to reach that goal. Sheryl Sandberg, the COO of Facebook, once said,There’s no such thing as work-life balance. There’s work, and there’s life, and there’s no balance.”  We all just need to make it work.  As small business owners and moms, we need to make it work even more since the lines between work and life blur much more frequently.

It has been said that if you are a small business owner, you can only choose 3 at any given time. Work, Sleep, Family, Fitness, Friends. As a mom, sleep and family are non-negotiable so that leaves me with one. Inevitably, it is work. However, if I completely neglect the other aspects of my life the guilt sets in. I am going to suggest some tips on how to hold it together the best way I have learned how.

Photos by Christina Lilly Photography

1 // Find Your Tribe

On the day my doctor confirmed I was pregnant and suggested my due date as April 17th my second feeling after pure elation was anxiousness.  As a wedding planner, I had booked a wedding a year before and it was scheduled for April 22nd. How would I make this work? How would I break the news to the bride? Well, I found out it was much easier than I had thought because I had chosen the people I work with wisely. I have been lucky enough to work with clients that also value family.  They also trust me to make sure everything runs smoothly even without my physical presence. That is how I knew that I found my tribe.

I have also surrounded myself with people on my team that care just as much about my small business as I do. I am lucky to have found these people and trust them to delegate those tasks that take me away from family, sleep, fitness or friends. That is invaluable to me and worth the effort I had spent to cultivate.

2 // Prioritize yourself.

My days are jam-packed with entertaining a 13-month-old, squeezing in work during naps and bedtime routines, preparing tiny meals and cleaning tiny dishes. The days go by in a blur. I recently decided to build in one night a week that was just for me. On Tuesday nights, after I have put my son to sleep I do something just for me.  Before baby, I enjoyed spending time by myself. I like the quiet and time to reflect.  I crave that time even more now as a self-proclaimed introvert. I look forward to those nights and it gets me through and re-energizes me to take on the next busy day.

3 // Create a schedule.

As women, we are master multitaskers.  However, I have felt my anxiety rise when I try to do toomuch at the same time. Just because I can doesn’t mean I should.  I have learned that I am a much better businesswoman and mom when I create space for both.  This will look differently for each individual of course. Some may be better at it than others.  So, I suggest creating a schedule for you that works and stick to it. We crave schedules and it helps us get through the day with much more ease. Believe it or not, the best investment I made as a small business owner was a sleep-training consultant. I was able to put my son on a sleep schedule that allowed me to create a schedule with confidence. If you are struggling to get through the day, maybe see if there are places where you can create a bit more structure. I have a feeling it might just help.

4 // It is ok to say no.

I am a people pleaser. It is one of my best and worst attributes.  Yet in these days I am learning to say no and not feel guilty about it.  It is hard to say no to every new inquiry or creative collaborations that comes your way because you are saying no to more money or a cool opportunity but at what cost? Determine as a family what you feel comfortable taking on as you navigate and “balance” these early years as a mom and an entrepreneur. 

This is still an on-going learning process for me.  I hope just reading some tips might help you with some perspective on being a mom and a creative entrepreneur. Every family situation is different and we are constantly comparing our situation. I advocate that if you can get to a place where you feel secure in how you are making it work then you, my friend, have found the secret to the balance.

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Balancing Entrepreneurship and Motherhood Guest blogger: Paige from Gilded Lily Events

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